You mist understand that the pollen is really potent. If she would be polinated the hole hair will be brown in about 2 days. She looks like she has about 8 weeks ahed of her
So the first plant you showed is male; And your showing the second plants because you want to know if it's pollinated, if I follow? ..it doesn't look like it's ripe enough to have drop the pollen yet, but you never know for sure?
-good luck!