If you have means of putting her in a separate room I would keep her. Just so its not a complete waste but if not and she's with other ladies it's better to cut her so she doesn't pollinate. Unless you can actually cut the branches with the growth if it's not to many, that's just a thought I have never tried it or even heard of any one doing that but it would be like toping her
I ended up chopping her. After further inspection she was for sure herming. I'm pretty sure she got stressed because I went from twice a day watering to not watering for a day and a half (I was in the hospital). She's in a cloth pot and she's closest to the floor fan I have so she must have dried out more than the others.