
Moe.Red
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Rant anytime you want. I especially likedTotally agree, I'm definitely more of an intuitive grower, but I understand a bit of the science too, probably more so since joining this forum honestly. My mom was a gardener, she made her own super soil before it was called that, didn't measure anything, let her intuition tell her how much, and I've had success doing the same... There really is a such thing as a green thumb. If her house plants were looking sad, she'd give them an aggressive haircut and feed them fish emulsion and they were glorious inside of a few weeks. There's a fine line between knowing the science and using it to your advantage, and trying to completely control a living thing. Sure many products are beneficial, but there is a such thing as too much. When I see someone post all thier goodies and it's like 20 different bottles and a strict schedule, it makes my head spin a little. I get that stuff is necessary in an inert medium... but that's why I do soil.
Not to sound like a feminist man hater or anything, because I'm definitely not, but I think a lot of men follow the old patriarchal beliefs, even subconsciously, that women can't possibly be as good at certain things as men... growing, being a chef, the medical field... which is silly because women have been the growers of food, makers of meals and birthers of babies for millennia. Damn fragile male ego, so easily threatened.So maybe that's another reason more women aren't here on the farm, they get sick of having thier skills questioned, having to prove themselves to men yet again, and being made to feel subpar because they happen to have a vagina... because that's a reality of life unfortunately, it was ingrained in society for centuries... I mean we just got the right to vote pretty recently and men are still making laws about our bodies. So maybe most just do thier own thing because they don't want to deal with it and don't need the validation as badly anyway. I'm here to learn personally, and there are plenty of cool guys on here that aren't condescending douchebags. That's the end of my rant lol... and I love men, I'm married to a pretty great one.
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...and trying to completely control a living thing.
We do tend to do that here. At least I have.
My wife and I are watching MASH in our down time. Holy crap, we have come a long way. The misogyny in that show is unbelievable. That was the norm then. Now I just drop the jaw that they were able to get away with it. Seems like every generation gets closer to parity tho, so we have hope.
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