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ghettogrower said:
I really hope so man I'd hate to see the drugs take him...I think a big problem is my mum always bails him out she's so soft and naive its unreal...he has gotten better but now it seems crack and alcohol have taken over....cheers lads I really hope he does kick it he k owns we're all here for him anytime
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That may be the problem gg.he needs to think he,s on his own of he continues.tell him your ther for him wen hes clean but otherwise ...no.your mother should do it too.youse arnt doing him favours by helping him.your actually keeping him from hitting the rock bottom he NEEDS to hit to TRULY WANT to get clean and not just coz everyone else does.in my family while your on drugs your on your own completely.but your always welcome when clean.it may sound harsh but you need to protect yourselve emotionally aswell as showing you dont accept such behaviour.good luck with it i hpoe it works out for ya.

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Its not too late for ur brother. I know a guy who didnt get right till he was 50. Lets hope its not that long but better late than never. Like happy sed gotta find ur bottom
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We just leav my bro to it while he still uses.hes unmanageable on those vals.
 
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Enabling someone to use never helps but when its your son what do ya do?
Tough love is easier said than done. Its easy to look at the problem objectively when your not as emotionally involved as you would be if its your own child. Its such a delicate matter. Ya dont wanna enable em but you also wanna support them and make em feel loved. Hell ive been on both ends of the spectrum and i still dont have a good answer hmm? All I can say is its jp to me to not use. I dont know what changed or when it even happened but i am a better person now than i ever was even before the drugs. I have a new appreciation for living simple
 
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Oh he knows he'll get nowt off me or my sis or anyone else but my mother u can't tell her mate she starts crying on me and all sorts says she's gonna stop then gives him money again or let's him stop at hers so he can fucking rob her !!! Like say he's really got to want to kick it and he doesn't other wise he wouldn't be out chasing rock and most probs h too well I know his sometimes I think he's a lost cause ....the tears I've shed over that fella and the rest of the fam....I'll help him any way to get clean but he don't listen to me on his younger bro he knows best u see
 
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Its hard in ur brothers position to see the light at the end but if he ever allows himself to get a glimpse of what potential there is in living sober or simple he might like it. A lot of addicts have been that way their entire adult life and haven't given anything else a college try.
 
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My Mrs used to hit me with it all the time she understands now when she's the state my mother can get in...mothers love ay....we have different dads his dad left him and won't talk to him since he was about 13 and she feels like she always has to be there kind of thing? I don't know man her love is unconditional
 
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Yeh its all he knows he's been doing it since 16 it like his mind is stuck in a constant cycle u can see it when u talk to him it breaks me
 
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When i was in the thick of my addiction i would manage to convince myself this was the last tkme. Or if i was dope sick i would tell myself i was just gonna do enough so i can at least think straight enough to figure a way out.
For someone who is so accustomed to getting that instant gratification its especially difficult.
 
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G gnome said:
Enabling someone to use never helps but when its your son what do ya do?
Tough love is easier said than done. Its easy to look at the problem objectively when your not as emotionally involved as you would be if its your own child. Its such a delicate matter. Ya dont wanna enable em but you also wanna support them and make em feel loved. Hell ive been on both ends of the spectrum and i still dont have a good answer hmm? All I can say is its jp to me to not use. I dont know what changed or when it even happened but i am a better person now than i ever was even before the drugs. I have a new appreciation for living simple
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Oh yeah of course.my parents tried theyr best with both me and my bro but nothing THEY could do could help us.them wanting us clean didnt get us clean and all trying did was batter her emotionally.i in particular gave them alot of trouble.and still they kept trying until it got to the stage they COULDNT help anymore coz all i was doing was using them to keep a habit going.i dont mean money wise but while i stayed ther and got feed and looked after i was never going to stop.and i was stealing all theyr shit.im so ashamed of the things i put my family through to this very day and i will be to the day i die.my families forgiven me but i just cant forgive myself.
its defo a tough one and every case is different but also very similar.
all you can really do is let your loved one know your willing to help them get clean when they wants to and youl be there wen they get clean.
drugs have a lot to answer for.the cause alot of mysery in this world.
 
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Yeh I can only imagine bow hard it is I mean I love my weed it its not got that same hold over you has it ....its got a hold of me alright tho lool
 
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Geez its been raining like crazy here. We've been getting flash flood warnings every day for the past 3 days. Been doin my veggies good but making the indo a pain w all the humidity. Because my dehumidifiers have been running non stop its making my rm xtra hot. Ugh
 
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Or is it the fact that theyr all illegal.would there be as bad a problem if u could by an opiate or coke laced ciggarette out a shop for the same price as a can of beer?im not too sure about that.total legalization of all "drugs" would have its pro,s and cons same as everything else.
 
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happy b said:
Oh yeah of course.my parents tried theyr best with both me and my bro but nothing THEY could do could help us.them wanting us clean didnt get us clean and all trying did was batter her emotionally.i in particular gave them alot of trouble.and still they kept trying until it got to the stage they COULDNT help anymore coz all i was doing was using them to keep a habit going.i dont mean money wise but while i stayed ther and got feed and looked after i was never going to stop.and i was stealing all theyr shit.im so ashamed of the things i put my family through to this very day and i will be to the day i die.my families forgiven me but i just cant forgive myself.
its defo a tough one and every case is different but also very similar.
all you can really do is let your loved one know your willing to help them get clean when they wants to and youl be there wen they get clean.
drugs have a lot to answer for.the cause alot of mysery in this world.
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Well sed. Im so ashamed. No goin back now. The past is past and the future is now.
 
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Idk if that'll work. It would be like a plague.
Just heard an advertisement on the radio for an implant that can rid u of alcohol and opiate addiction. ..scary.
 
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Yeh man no need to.be ashamed what's done is done man....

Sounds like your having some of our weather G and over here its lovely and sunny at the min clear blue sky for once ....I need a new hygrometer its not giving me a reading on the outlet so the inlet could be wrong and everything else I'm just so bloody skint right now its a pain in the ass lol
 
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This k I've decided what beans I'm gonna get when this money comes my way...sincity blue power and bog sour bubble......I think lol
 
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That's no good man hope it u don't get flooded bro
 
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