Lol, I know what you mean. I'm not very good at shooters, they've never been my style. I'm just the uncle/dad that follows the kids around and supports. My 13 yo nephew will have 15 kills, my 5 yo will have 3 or 4 and I'm lucky to get 1. But I'm a loot monster. I'll have looted 100 chests.
I've always preferred rpg. I'm playing Divinity 2 right now. It's a very good game. This will be my third time through it and it's different everytime. Someone told me about Remnant 2 on Xbox, it was free so I tried it and it's pretty well made and fun. There's some sort of online battling to it but I've not seen it yet. I'll prob play it here and there. It's another shooter, but there's more to it.