mittenmedgrow
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Lmfao. Well yep that actually makes things a lot clearer, truthfully. Your right.My friend said he came home from work one day and his wife tells him she thinks they don't talk enough anymore. So he says the house is a mess, the laundry isn't done and my dinner isn't on the table is there anything else you want to talk about or does that about cover it. He is now divorced
No I'm used to it, most women are delicate sensitive creatures and some are very insrcure. My wife isn't that bad I wouldn't say I have to be delicate I just need to let her know that there is a lot of things I love about her before I hit her in the head with the hammer of reality.Doesn't it kill you to have to be so delicate with every word and move?
@BlackSheepOG then why say anything dude? Then why even respond? Other than to rub somebodys struggle in their face and say "i can do it why cant you" why not just leave it alone you little prick
I seriously cant stand people like you bro, do me a favor and stay on your side of the play pen whenever you and I have to inhabit the same area.
I smell some awesome bubble in your near future!! Mm mmm mmmGot my trimming done, a whole lot of it went in the trim, damn airy.... nothings buds, hate that shit. Tried a nug, (if you'd call it that, lol), and it tasted good and got me buzzed so, that saved it from the majority going in the trim. lol Still got shit to do, finally sat down for a few and got on and now my boy is here so, I'm out again.
Heres what i think broQuestion.
I want to work on thingsm always. Im a dude. Nothing is ever good enough it can always be better.
I say to my lady, i feel like some things are moving in a negative direction, eating unhealthy, smoking too many cigs...type stuff.
She gets upset with me cause i want this "change for the better" and i am 100% being understanding, nice, and not shoving it down anyones throat. She asks. I tell.
Now im in trouble for "never" being satisfied with the way things are, always wanting to change and move forward. I think she wants me to be okay with our unhealthy lifestyle, im not okay with it i want to move forward with our lives. To bettet ourselves.
So now she says she feels like everything she does isnt good enough, and im trying to back pedal and make her see that i dont NEED things to be that way, i WANT them to be that way. And im not unhappy cause theyre not, i see a life that i want so i want to work towards it.
Can someone please help me find a way to explain this... Im super lost
I really appreicate your advice, it resonates with me in a way that helps me see clearly. Im gonna apply and see if i cant sort this conversation out with herNo I'm used to it, most women are delicate sensitive creatures and some are very insrcure. My wife isn't that bad I wouldn't say I have to be delicate I just need to let her know that there is a lot of things I love about her before I hit her in the head with the hammer of reality.
Im really thankful for you guys today. Thank you guys so much.... I feel like i can take this on and be a good man for my lady now. Seriously cant thank yall enoughHeres what i think bro
Show her this post and point out your asking advice from friends not total strangers.maybe reading what you just wrote will work better than saying it in person because theres no tone of voice or weird facial expressions.or maybe copy that post to a dif part of your phone and take us out of the notes.when i was about to leave my wife i wrote her a letter because every time we talked it turned into a huge argument.she stopped me from leaving that day and so now when im really pissed i use notes/letters to express my self.works pretty good most the time lol.gl man,just remember the ladie is always right hahaha
I had a hard time with my first wife and alot of it was I didn't have a Dad around growing up to teach me about women. I started asking advice from my mom and listened to her. Some memorable points my mom made.I really appreicate your advice, it resonates with me in a way that helps me see clearly. Im gonna apply and see if i cant sort this conversation out with her
@BlackSheepOG look i get that your "trying" to help but i think that i just dont like you bro. No offense. Im just gonna click ignore. I dont want to be a dick to you and i apologize for the negativity. Truly. Its not my place to judge.
Question.
I want to work on thingsm always. Im a dude. Nothing is ever good enough it can always be better.
I say to my lady, i feel like some things are moving in a negative direction, eating unhealthy, smoking too many cigs...type stuff.
She gets upset with me cause i want this "change for the better" and i am 100% being understanding, nice, and not shoving it down anyones throat. She asks. I tell.
Now im in trouble for "never" being satisfied with the way things are, always wanting to change and move forward. I think she wants me to be okay with our unhealthy lifestyle, im not okay with it i want to move forward with our lives. To bettet ourselves.
So now she says she feels like everything she does isnt good enough, and im trying to back pedal and make her see that i dont NEED things to be that way, i WANT them to be that way. And im not unhappy cause theyre not, i see a life that i want so i want to work towards it.
Can someone please help me find a way to explain this... Im super lost
Big dog.Well I ordered some shit today.
Have to go and pay for it tomorrow so there's still time to back out but I don't see anything stopping me. If it doesn't work out I'll go back to the drawing board and try again
A God amongst mortalsBig dog.
That was my first thought.A God amongst mortals
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