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My friend said he came home from work one day and his wife tells him she thinks they don't talk enough anymore. So he says the house is a mess, the laundry isn't done and my dinner isn't on the table is there anything else you want to talk about or does that about cover it. He is now divorced
 
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My friend said he came home from work one day and his wife tells him she thinks they don't talk enough anymore. So he says the house is a mess, the laundry isn't done and my dinner isn't on the table is there anything else you want to talk about or does that about cover it. He is now divorced
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Lmfao. Well yep that actually makes things a lot clearer, truthfully. Your right.

Women are complex creatures bro.. Im really trying hard to not be selfish and see just her side. I want her to understand that i dont care that we mess up a little.... If she does...im trying to tell her that i do love her just the way she is. But as soon as i mention anything negative her flip switches.

Ill try what you said bro, i appreciate the time and advice. Coolest part of being around folks that are more experienced than me : )
 
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Doesn't it kill you to have to be so delicate with every word and move?

@BlackSheepOG then why say anything dude? Then why even respond? Other than to rub somebodys struggle in their face and say "i can do it why cant you" why not just leave it alone you little prick

I seriously cant stand people like you bro, do me a favor and stay on your side of the play pen whenever you and I have to inhabit the same area.
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No I'm used to it, most women are delicate sensitive creatures and some are very insrcure. My wife isn't that bad I wouldn't say I have to be delicate I just need to let her know that there is a lot of things I love about her before I hit her in the head with the hammer of reality.
 
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Got my trimming done, a whole lot of it went in the trim, damn airy.... nothings buds, hate that shit. Tried a nug, (if you'd call it that, lol), and it tasted good and got me buzzed so, that saved it from the majority going in the trim. lol Still got shit to do, finally sat down for a few and got on and now my boy is here so, I'm out again.
 
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@BlackSheepOG look i get that your "trying" to help but i think that i just dont like you bro. No offense. Im just gonna click ignore. I dont want to be a dick to you and i apologize for the negativity. Truly. Its not my place to judge.
 
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Got my trimming done, a whole lot of it went in the trim, damn airy.... nothings buds, hate that shit. Tried a nug, (if you'd call it that, lol), and it tasted good and got me buzzed so, that saved it from the majority going in the trim. lol Still got shit to do, finally sat down for a few and got on and now my boy is here so, I'm out again.
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I smell some awesome bubble in your near future!! Mm mmm mmm
 
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One thing that helps me when thinking about the differences between them and us is that women are always using both sides of their brain while we are using one side or the other. With the fucking chaos inside my head, what in the hell would I do if I was operating with that!?
 
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Question.

I want to work on thingsm always. Im a dude. Nothing is ever good enough it can always be better.

I say to my lady, i feel like some things are moving in a negative direction, eating unhealthy, smoking too many cigs...type stuff.

She gets upset with me cause i want this "change for the better" and i am 100% being understanding, nice, and not shoving it down anyones throat. She asks. I tell.

Now im in trouble for "never" being satisfied with the way things are, always wanting to change and move forward. I think she wants me to be okay with our unhealthy lifestyle, im not okay with it i want to move forward with our lives. To bettet ourselves.

So now she says she feels like everything she does isnt good enough, and im trying to back pedal and make her see that i dont NEED things to be that way, i WANT them to be that way. And im not unhappy cause theyre not, i see a life that i want so i want to work towards it.

Can someone please help me find a way to explain this... Im super lost
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Heres what i think bro
Show her this post and point out your asking advice from friends not total strangers.maybe reading what you just wrote will work better than saying it in person because theres no tone of voice or weird facial expressions.or maybe copy that post to a dif part of your phone and take us out of the notes.when i was about to leave my wife i wrote her a letter because every time we talked it turned into a huge argument.she stopped me from leaving that day and so now when im really pissed i use notes/letters to express my self.works pretty good most the time lol.gl man,just remember the ladie is always right hahaha
 
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No I'm used to it, most women are delicate sensitive creatures and some are very insrcure. My wife isn't that bad I wouldn't say I have to be delicate I just need to let her know that there is a lot of things I love about her before I hit her in the head with the hammer of reality.
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I really appreicate your advice, it resonates with me in a way that helps me see clearly. Im gonna apply and see if i cant sort this conversation out with her
 
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Heres what i think bro
Show her this post and point out your asking advice from friends not total strangers.maybe reading what you just wrote will work better than saying it in person because theres no tone of voice or weird facial expressions.or maybe copy that post to a dif part of your phone and take us out of the notes.when i was about to leave my wife i wrote her a letter because every time we talked it turned into a huge argument.she stopped me from leaving that day and so now when im really pissed i use notes/letters to express my self.works pretty good most the time lol.gl man,just remember the ladie is always right hahaha
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Im really thankful for you guys today. Thank you guys so much.... I feel like i can take this on and be a good man for my lady now. Seriously cant thank yall enough
 
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I really appreicate your advice, it resonates with me in a way that helps me see clearly. Im gonna apply and see if i cant sort this conversation out with her
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I had a hard time with my first wife and alot of it was I didn't have a Dad around growing up to teach me about women. I started asking advice from my mom and listened to her. Some memorable points my mom made.
Pick your battles and know when to back off your not going to win them all
Spend time together but make it quality time.
Give her and yourself plenty of your own time. You know how the dog reacts when you come home after being gone for awhile. You want to be excited to see her after you've been away.
compliments before any criticism and quickly follow up with another compliment.
Do lots of silly things like handmade cards and cheesy love letters. Like when you were in high school.
Most women love cheesy crap.
I am the most un romantic person there is naturally but with the help of my mom and google searches I can pretend with the best of them
 
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@BlackSheepOG look i get that your "trying" to help but i think that i just dont like you bro. No offense. Im just gonna click ignore. I dont want to be a dick to you and i apologize for the negativity. Truly. Its not my place to judge.
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Lol are you serious bro? Wow whatever dude if you can't take jokes then that's not my problem. I'm sorry you're having a rough time dude, look I get it I've been there and I apologize if I come across wrong that's never my intentions. I like to fuck around dude. I'm a sarcastic asshole and that's just who I am but doesn't mean I don't feelings bro.

In case mr garden guy ignored me make sure he sees this post. Best wishes to yea dude! No hate here
 
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Question.

I want to work on thingsm always. Im a dude. Nothing is ever good enough it can always be better.

I say to my lady, i feel like some things are moving in a negative direction, eating unhealthy, smoking too many cigs...type stuff.

She gets upset with me cause i want this "change for the better" and i am 100% being understanding, nice, and not shoving it down anyones throat. She asks. I tell.

Now im in trouble for "never" being satisfied with the way things are, always wanting to change and move forward. I think she wants me to be okay with our unhealthy lifestyle, im not okay with it i want to move forward with our lives. To bettet ourselves.

So now she says she feels like everything she does isnt good enough, and im trying to back pedal and make her see that i dont NEED things to be that way, i WANT them to be that way. And im not unhappy cause theyre not, i see a life that i want so i want to work towards it.

Can someone please help me find a way to explain this... Im super lost
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@gardnguyahoy

So once there was an old dog who love to lay on the front porch. Now the only problem for him is that he always lays on a nail that sticks him in the side. He would like to get up, but it just doesn't hurt that bad yet.

My friend, we evolve. Genetically, physically, and mentally. Now the speed by which we evolve is determined by the individual's level of consciousness (things you are aware of, internally and externally).
The only way you can lift anyone up is by allowing them the mental space/time to make (choose or not to choose) that decision for themselves.
All we can do is show others it's possible. And then they evolve the way they are ment too. Best of luck

A true decision is one made in one day and never made again.
Decision: Latin orgin, meaning a day to cut.
#theassbandit
 
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Thanks guys.
Gotta run again.
 
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Well I ordered some shit today.
Have to go and pay for it tomorrow so there's still time to back out but I don't see anything stopping me. If it doesn't work out I'll go back to the drawing board and try again
 
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Well I ordered some shit today.
Have to go and pay for it tomorrow so there's still time to back out but I don't see anything stopping me. If it doesn't work out I'll go back to the drawing board and try again
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Big dog.
 
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Big dog.
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A God amongst mortals
 
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Well, I really have to get my shit together tomorrow and get stuff done. I was gonna get my Dirty Harry and Code Blue transplanted and flipped and get some cookies made after I did my trimming this morning, the trimming was the only thing that got done and I was already putting the up-pot off until today. Gotta buckle down tomorrow, even if I do have company, if they wanna talk to me they'll have to do it while I work damn it.
 
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A God amongst mortals
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That was my first thought.
 
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