I RESEARCHED for 6 months before I started growing. I grew for 4 or 5 months before I joined this forum. If you don't do your own knowledge searching and reading on the all powerful search engines and try to figure it out for yourself, I don't think you will find much help from anyone, anywhere. There is a site I got most of my basic knowledge from, I'd be happy to give you in a pm. Just don't like advertising out in the open for things that don't pay me back lol. Little scoffs like your quote here are kinda shitty, ESPECIALLY directed at @Seamaiden. She knows enough to talk you into a coma, so if you a really simple minded then anything she would tell you would spin your head. Keep those thoughts to yourself, as the community hates trolls, assholes, and shitty people in general, and I believe some people have been banned for less. Just be nice and be careful!