I keep having these fuckin spiders making webs from leaf to leaf bud to bud, I've handed picked all the webs I can see off but I'm sure some got stuck to my buds
Will a peroxide bud wash or any form of bud wash take them off?
If it is indeed spider webs; spiders are a gardeners best friend whether indoor or outdoor.
They eat pests and will not cause the plant any harm. The webs will not effect your final product as final processing will surely clear them away.
The more common issues that involve webbing are spider mites, as you mentioned, and bud rot, which can look like spider webs.
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