Why not just hire a few feminists and some men abused as children to commit your violence?
And when they get caught fucking someone up you go to jail too, and be their bitch just like you're trying to be here. The BBB, give me break, yet another non-sequitur to minimize a serious subject?
What about the person who answers their door with a shotgun to your belly? Most grand juries will have no problem with them leaving you on the doorstep holding your digestive tract in a pile. When you arrive wielding rebar, self defense trumps any business disagreement, both morally and legally.
Really think those bikers at the bar are interested in joining your stupid drama? And if they are, then you'll have bigger problems. Yet another good way to get your ass kicked or much worse.
The advice being given here is astounding.
Take responsibility for your own actions, and the people you choose to work with.
Consignment means you gave that shit over freely. I have done it too and got screwed just like I deserved. Have had way more than 10k stolen from me too. Do I still feel like breaking knees every time I think about it? You bet, and way more than that. It's taken me years of serious work to reconcile that tendency. Will I waste my time and life on violence to just perpetuate the problem and likely put me in a cage at some point? Fuck no.
@squiggly do you think prospective employers want anything to do with someone who behaves or even believes as you suggest? It's clear you've suffered terrible abuse and continue to be traumatized by it, and I am truly sorry for that. If I can assist you or anyone else with resources for personal growth, or just a better understanding of the cycle of violence, please don't hesitate to ask.
While my tongue can be sharp at times, I have tremendous compassion in this area and offer my expertise sincerely. When we can't intelligently consider viewpoints beyond our own, especially those with which we first disagree, overcoming these patterns is impossible, and life will continue to serve up the same trauma for ourselves and our children.