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gardnguyahoy said:
I havent had it in me to take down the blower and head over there.

Shit got real fucked up between me and the lady. Worse than ever. We both have anger issues and it just makes the arguments so frequent and bad. Just, this one was super heavy brother. And in front of the kids.

Ive been doing this back and fourth with her for a while now im sure ive bitched and moaned about it before. Its just...things went too far. And shes done with me. I realized that im a fucking poison mate. Its just hard to swallow. So yeah.....anyways..., its been a rough day.

I have some stupid mental issues from my child hood and everything i went thru, it makes it hard for me to see straight, sometimes i get so wrapped up in my head that my perspective of the world gets twisted up. Makes me an idiot. And then when things return to normal i see all these things i did and ways i acted and all i can feel is regret and shame.

Im just thankful i have friends(edit to add) -and weed- to help keep me sane. Without other humans i get lost in my head. I need to talk about shit like ph meters and joke around cause it grounds me. Ya know? So does spending time with my boy. Hes all knocked out snoring next to me and it cheers me up.
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Sounds like me when I was young, severe bipolar with anger outbursts and days at a time with no sleep and severe depression. I learned a long time ago to remove myself from situations when I feel it coming on. I've done a lot of dumb shit due to anger. Medication helped but counseling and learning to notice it coming on and getting away and being by myself was the biggest help. It might sound stupid but self talk helped me a lot. Taking the time to talk to yourself and understand your feelings helps. I could tell you some crazy ass things I did while enraged from knocking myself out by intentionally running into a tree to threatening the police and telling them to shoot me. I'm lucky to be alive. Being from a broken family isn't good but I think having parents that fight and argue in front of the kids is worse especially If it gets physical or people start wrecking shit.
 
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mittenmedgrow said:
Sounds like me when I was young, severe bipolar with anger outbursts and days at a time with no sleep and severe depression. I learned a long time ago to remove myself from situations when I feel it coming on. I've done a lot of dumb shit due to anger. Medication helped but counseling and learning to notice it coming on and getting away and being by myself was the biggest help. It might sound stupid but self talk helped me a lot. Taking the time to talk to yourself and understand your feelings helps. I could tell you some crazy ass things I did while enraged from knocking myself out by intentionally running into a tree to threatening the police and telling them to shoot me. I'm lucky to be alive. Being from a broken family isn't good but I think having parents that fight and argue in front of the kids is worse especially If it gets physical or people start wrecking shit.
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I feel worse about myself when i get that mad than i ever did about whatever stupid shit set me off

tattoojim said:
Combo Meyer fer the win!
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Combo Meyer eh?
 
#16,668
gardnguyahoy said:
Mornin gents! Missed about 8 pages... Sorry no like onslaughts from me today... But hey hey hey! Im glad to be here.

Walked in my room last night after i got home, it was 87! Ahhh! 6 inch fan on the 600w went out. Completely. It was barely turning when i pulled the ducting off.

RH was immeasurable. 0% lol. I watered and got it up to 20% @Ned Kelly im still trying to bring the RH back up. Didn't want to shock the plants but fuckin a brother i think i already did with the fan failure. So today, ill try and return that pos and get another. Hopefully stabalize the RH back to 25%

Anyone know a good read to help combat Fox tailing?
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Cool bro wouldn't stress to much on the heat there would be few of us here that havnt grown through temps like that with success . Don't leave it there. Of course . Thanks again for ur hospitality your good people . Cheers
 
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Garlic beef. Broccoli rice sauteed mushrooms
 

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#16,671
mittenmedgrow said:
Sounds like me when I was young, severe bipolar with anger outbursts and days at a time with no sleep and severe depression. I learned a long time ago to remove myself from situations when I feel it coming on. I've done a lot of dumb shit due to anger. Medication helped but counseling and learning to notice it coming on and getting away and being by myself was the biggest help. It might sound stupid but self talk helped me a lot. Taking the time to talk to yourself and understand your feelings helps. I could tell you some crazy ass things I did while enraged from knocking myself out by intentionally running into a tree to threatening the police and telling them to shoot me. I'm lucky to be alive. Being from a broken family isn't good but I think having parents that fight and argue in front of the kids is worse especially If it gets physical or people start wrecking shit.
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I absolutely agree, if you can't have the self control to keep knock-down-drag-out fights from happening in front of your kids then that's not a healthy environment for them either and yes, even worse than the broken home in many cases.
 
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I think most of us can agree that women are fucking crazy to some extent, some more than others, and God/evolution/whatever played the ugly trick on us men of giving us two heads and only enough blood to use one at a time so, is it any wonder we keep getting into fucking messes?

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See what i mean. My buddys help ground me. Wether it be real life or here, experience from older wiser dudes really humbles me and helps me gain perspective.

Life is a lesson. Whatever it was for yall, stupidity seems to be lodged right in there for me as well. @mittenmedgrow i can relate big time. Im very internal, constantly churning, concerning, weighing, optioning, imagining, struggling with myself. Anger is something i struggle with big time. Being 27 i feel shitty that i havent grown up enough to keep my shit straight. I felt it coming. I just didnt avoid it. I dove right in like an idiot.

@G gnome @Papa Indica your right, and i feel like this back and fourth has been going on for over a year now. Shits got to the point where i think were making each others lives worse just by being around each other. I love this woman to death but i cant keep doing this to her, i cant keep losing my temper and having shouting matches while the kids can hear.

The older girl, shes 9. She just starts screaming mommy and crying...it was fucked up dude.

There was a moment where i felt like a monster. And i feel bad for them...you know? Like its getting worse. Not better.

Anyways. I appreciate all the love guys i really do. Every word of wisdom is taken in and considered, appreciated and stored. I appreciate you guys, this weird collection of growers and smokers just trying to talk to some like minded folks. Id like to keep the vibes positive and all that, hope the fresh fam is doing well tonight.
 
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gardnguyahoy said:
See what i mean. My buddys help ground me. Wether it be real life or here, experience from older wiser dudes really humbles me and helps me gain perspective.

Life is a lesson. Whatever it was for yall, stupidity seems to be lodged right in there for me as well. @mittenmedgrow i can relate big time. Im very internal, constantly churning, concerning, weighing, optioning, imagining, struggling with myself. Anger is something i struggle with big time. Being 27 i feel shitty that i havent grown up enough to keep my shit straight. I felt it coming. I just didnt avoid it. I dove right in like an idiot.

@G gnome @Papa Indica your right, and i feel like this back and fourth has been going on for over a year now. Shits got to the point where i think were making each others lives worse just by being around each other. I love this woman to death but i cant keep doing this to her, i cant keep losing my temper and having shouting matches while the kids can hear.

The older girl, shes 9. She just starts screaming mommy and crying...it was fucked up dude.

There was a moment where i felt like a monster. And i feel bad for them...you know? Like its getting worse. Not better.

Anyways. I appreciate all the love guys i really do. Every word of wisdom is taken in and considered, appreciated and stored. I appreciate you guys, this weird collection of growers and smokers just trying to talk to some like minded folks. Id like to keep the vibes positive and all that, hope the fresh fam is doing well tonight.
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Keep ya head up bro..You need to talk more come holla
 
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gardnguyahoy said:
See what i mean. My buddys help ground me. Wether it be real life or here, experience from older wiser dudes really humbles me and helps me gain perspective.

Life is a lesson. Whatever it was for yall, stupidity seems to be lodged right in there for me as well. @mittenmedgrow i can relate big time. Im very internal, constantly churning, concerning, weighing, optioning, imagining, struggling with myself. Anger is something i struggle with big time. Being 27 i feel shitty that i havent grown up enough to keep my shit straight. I felt it coming. I just didnt avoid it. I dove right in like an idiot.

@G gnome @Papa Indica your right, and i feel like this back and fourth has been going on for over a year now. Shits got to the point where i think were making each others lives worse just by being around each other. I love this woman to death but i cant keep doing this to her, i cant keep losing my temper and having shouting matches while the kids can hear.

The older girl, shes 9. She just starts screaming mommy and crying...it was fucked up dude.

There was a moment where i felt like a monster. And i feel bad for them...you know? Like its getting worse. Not better.

Anyways. I appreciate all the love guys i really do. Every word of wisdom is taken in and considered, appreciated and stored. I appreciate you guys, this weird collection of growers and smokers just trying to talk to some like minded folks. Id like to keep the vibes positive and all that, hope the fresh fam is doing well tonight.
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You just have to remove yourself from the situation when you feel the anger brewing. My rampages were always pretty short lived then the depression set in and the thoughts of being a piece of shit for not being able to control myself took over. I was just starting to get better at your age and it gets easier with time and practice. Now I look back at those times and can't believe I used to be that way. I ran through all kinds of anti depressants and anti psychotic medications but what helped me the most was counseling. I went through years of counseling and joined a group of guys with similar issues and it helped me a lot. Also made some major changes in how I was living my life and started feeling good about myself. One thing I learned that always will stick with me is that I learned to embrace my sadness instead of converting it into rage. Anger is the easiest emotion for many men to express it's much easier to get pissed off instead of feeling that underlying emotion of sadness. You can make any changes to yourself if you want. You just need determination and in my case help from others. A support group helped me a lot and I wouldn't be the person I am today without that group of guys.
 
#16,679
G gnome said:
Bout to play some mario cart w the fam!!!
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It's all about smash bros, Mario party, and Mario kart!

@gardnguyahoy that sucks what's goin on man. I'm your age and have some anger issues as well. I get mad over stupid things and argue with my girl and then feel like a jackass because I know I'm taking it way out of proportion while I'm doing it but I keep going. But I've gotten better since my living situation changed.

There is something that is making you angry you just gotta find what it is and change it
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