I hate electronic drums but can understand the various reasons people use them.
That being said, there are some cool ways to make acoustic drums pretty quiet and still sound and feel WAY better than an electric kit. Cymbals are not an issue either if you buy ultra thin jazz cymbals like I do. Heavy cymbals all sound like shit in a room. They can work in recordings to be sure for many scenarios but anything other than ultra light jazz cymbals (won’t find them at a guitar center..) for acoustic enjoyment has very little if any justification aside from not being able to afford them. If you ever want to put something together and understand how to stay quiet, I’m happy to help.
A decent used kit with all the essential hardware, some sticks, new heads, creative and quality volume reduction, used jazz hats and a used jazz ride (that you would treasure and love and be forever inspired by) would set you back about 1300-1500 dollars and with some tuning coaching from me you’d sound 10x better than walking out of a guitar center having spent 2,000+ on whatever dog shit they keep laying around..