I guess I'm having a slight issue with recognizing a thirsty plant. If my pots are light and they really take the water, I understand that was a thirsty plant. But I keep letting myself think the light green new growth isn't greening fast enough and therefore needs more water. That's not correct, is it?
I'm just comparing new growth on plants I see here with mine, and almost every time I come away thinking I'm missing something.
With my limited experience, if there is one thing I know for sure, it's that I have never given a plant 3-4 gallons of water in one watering. Last year it was 1 gal tops for pots and in-ground plants each time. That with 90+ temps for a long stretch and drought. My potted plants seemed cooked by September last year.
I have much to learn, apparently.