I agree, 9,5 weeks seems about right for autos and even on the late side as Harpua said. All autoflowers are feminized, thats why they are called autoflower, they flower automatically, flowers are buds not polen sacks, but being a first timer I can understand you not knowing that. Dont worry theyre female, if anything check during late flower for polen sacks or bananas inside the buds (theyre called bananas cause they are yellow and banana shaped), they can herm but they cant be male. They will only herm if they feel like theyre getting towards the end of their life wether because theyre sick or stressed, it doesnt happen just because most of the times (It can indeed be genetic but good seed banks avoid those genetic traits more than cheap seed vendors or bad seed banks). If a seed bank doesnt care about putting hermy seeds in their badges then youre very likely to find an herm in your grow, hermie seeds are 50% more likely to herm.