That's definitely Botrytis....cut out the pink, rust colored parts or popcorn bud and get it away from your plants... I've been dealing with it for the last few weeks myself. Cutting it out sucks, but if you don't it just spreads. I've found it on stems, and from there into the buds. I'll take
Hydrogen Peroxide and rub it on the stems where they are affected...and spray with Oxidate and Activiate every 3 to 5 days. It helps stop it from spreading, but isn't a cure... Once your leaves start to wilt while the rest of the plant looks fine, the bud is shot...sorry. Just cut it off and dispose of properly. Really good air circulation, sunshine and warm temperatures are your friend :) Something very hard to find here in Northern Michigan :(
Before treatment
And another branch post peroxide and paper towel rub down...