Yes, "ghost town"
I was a little humiliated when I first posted this so I took it down. After a personal debate I figured this might help someone down the road never know?
The only way to manage ptsd is to face down the demons that haunt the memories.
This is what I learned after this event..
"We must confront our fears, as someday, they will be thrust upon us without choice"
Shit what a day. I have to get this one of my chest.
My wife's grandmother had a mild heart attack this morning.
Had just finished putting some memory in Grams computer when she walk's in and try's it out. Loves how fast it is and gives me a big kiss. Tells me how wonderful I am then proceeds to the restroom to take care of some business. Standing in the next room I hear my wife’s aunt scream for me. I get in the hallway and the aunt has Grammy in a front suplex trying to hold her up. Gram was white and cold, gone completely limp and mumbling that she could not feel her legs or arm's. We (aunt and I) get her to her bedroom floor a few feet away. The next few min's were pretty horrific with vomit and screaming and too make matters more confusing, my fucking ptsd kicked in and I started flashing like none other. Everything became a blur, memories started to mix with the screams, All I wanted to do was get up and run but something in my head made me stay? A few seconds go by and this powerful burst of courage hit’s me? My thought changed from “run” too “make her comfortable and keep it calm”. My wife was on her other side of her and could see that I was about to freak out, but, for the first time in a many years gentlemen, I over came my anxieties and sat with her until help arrived.
She came around a few min’s before the paramedics showed up and slowly started to move, talk, feel, recognize us by name and by the time the gurney was in the hallway, she was able to get to her feet, and with help, walk herself too it. That lady is tough as nails, I swear to God lol
The docs tell us she is doing great and should be ready to come home after a day or so of test and observation.
Love me some Grammy guy’s this lady has helped change my life in more ways then one and is one of the sweetest human being’s I have ever had the honor of knowing.
Regardless of beliefs, Please send some healing prayers for this awesome women.
Thanks my friends.
Quick note: I was medicated on the smoke I grew (the big plant) when this happened. I honestly don't know how I would have handled this if I had not been medicated? All is good though and I feel totally different about my disorder having been faced with such a situation. A little more "empowered" you might say.
Update: Gram was able too come home this afternoon and is doing great.