Distilled is, in my opinion, too 'clean'. RO/DI, RO, well-filtered, tap. That said, when growing in organic soils you have an awful lot of leeway, so it's not hard and fast.
I started off using a drip-carbon filter, can't remember if it was Brita or PUR. But I went through a lot more than one filter every couple of months. Problem with RO is the water waste is immoral, gotta find a use for that water.