I just use the three point trimming timeline as a guide, not set in stone. Missing the day 21 trim isn't a huge deal as I take most of what I'll be removing off at the day 7 trim anyways. The day 14 and day 21 are mostly for stragglers. I even trim up to around week 5, just not pulling a ton off. A fan leaf here and there, maybe a surprise straggler that won't be anything in the end. If I run into height issues, super cropping is my solution there.
As for pulling sample buds, I don't see an issue with that. Most growers do it anyways when working with a new unfamiliar strain or something they have worked for a while but did differently and see something they just are too excited to wait for. As long as you're not doing like a partial harvest I don't see an issue with it. I did the same thing this last run, looking to find that sweet spot to harvest at. Probably won't do the same thing again this next run as I know where I'll be finishing up with my strain and that in itself is a huge benefit. Knowing the genetics is just as important, regardless of light source. One benefit I would say of not completely lollipopping the ladies is some of those straggler buds make good samplers. They won't impact your final weight much anyways and a few here and there won't take an excess amount of energy from the nice buds you're after.
That heat though, I know exactly what you're talking about. I would proceed, if money allowed, as you planned with the tent and 150w HPS. With the added lumens, you'll definitely have higher heat issues but they can be addressed with the comments in my previous post here. Once you have the heat under control everything else will become a cake walk. I swear, heat is the Lucifer of small grows. Trying to keep a small cabinet cooled takes so much more fine tuning than setting up a 8' x 10' x 8' room in my opinion. The thing is if you can get that room controlled you can run a cabinet or multiples in it and be just as comfortable. BUT the efficiency would go up substantially just in growth rates and overall bud production with the HPS.
Some people will argue the point of no cutting post flip, will cause stress, may result in hermies, blah blah blah. To those ends I say this plant grew in nature and has defences in place. Frankly, if the plant gets stressed out and throws nanners because I trimmed three weeks into flower, it doesn't have a place anywhere in my grow. Sure, it may be "fire", but it's unstable fucking genetics and I'm not ok with that. Hell, the strain I'm working on right now went through HELL this last run, more stress than I can even mention. Moves, timer fuck ups, light leaks, heat issues, pH issues, general abuse. Sure, the end result wasn't kill shit, but my patients love it so far and I will be running it again because it's stable enough to go through the shit I can throw at it and not drop nanners.
Sorry for the long reply, this stuff gets me lifted and I just kind of ramble sometimes. Oh, ganja :)
One Love,
tobh