The problem with dating while you're growing is that it's a massive security risk, sooner or later a woman is going to want to see where and how you live, and you can bet your bottom dollar that she's going to want to know what's behind that locked door. No matter how well you think you know someone, that's a big leap of faith.
As has already been said, our hormones can make us do silly things so tread carefully and stay safe.
I am probably the luckiest man alive in that regards.
26 years ago, young, bold, pushing the limits I did not trust ANY FEMALES.My wifey of 25 years, ( Team Thundercunt )
yes that is her online moniker was a Bonnie to my Clyde from the start of our relationship.
I met her at a club with like 10 of her work girlfriends on girls night out.
We made eye contact when I walked in the door and SPARKED*****
BIG SMILES.
I got a beer and hung out and tried to avoid looking at her too much, she did not look my way.
I got a girl to dance and we danced by their table and they were Checkin out the booty.
Now here is Kendo's patented table full of ladies maneuver. GET THIS DOWN and you will be a GOD to your single friends
" Helllo lovely ladies"
Pause, made eye contact with each one.
"I am gonna guess girls night out, you ladies are having more fun than everybody in here"
Got a little sad look on my face
"YA.....My friends bailed on me at the last damn minute, poohbutts... soooooo I was wondering if I could kick it with you and have some fun too?"
BIG SMILE!
"I know some good jokes and we could talk about people"
BIG SMILE!
2 married cougars with big ass titties and MAD cleavage scooted apart and put a free chair in between em.
Sitting down I looked immediate right and left without staring down into the cleavage and said, " SEE! I am having fun already"
BIG laffs from them all.
A few minutes later a good dance song came on and a few commented that they really liked it.
I got all 10 of out there dancing with me, cougars rubbin me up with Big titties but I only made eye contact with my girl.
I asked the girl who was sitting next to TTC if she minded if I took her seat. They made that oooh girl recognition face and smiled.
We chopped it up for hours and exchanged numbers.
We both knew it was something special and we created a friendship before anything happened sexually.
25 years later.....