If your exhaust fan is pulling out more than your intake is bringing in, an open flap should only pull air in and not let air or smell out.
And the tents mfgers cannot sat "no light leaks" A lot of things come into it. when you assemble your tent...be careful not to stretch it too much.
try to avoid that as much as possible. if your exhaust fan is way strong and causes your tent to suck in... that can loosen seams. but even the best will prolly have a few leaks. I've taken a tent in a dark room and put a 400 watter inside. so light shine out. then got some black shoe polish, the thick pasty kind in a can. used a que tip and pushed it in the lighted holes, then wipe up any excess. any thing dark you can put in/over holes.
build a window box to put over inside your window. this may take some 'splaning.... the use of flat black paint is that it will be on the side of box facing out, so if someone tries to peek in. it will look like its just a dark room.
use cardboard, oooh inches to centermeters.... a 2 foot x 2 foot window = 60cm x 60cm for example.
you want to over extend window on all sides, so to keep it simple, say 4 cm all sides so that will be 68cm x 68cm.
plus about 4cm from wall another 4cm all sides now 76cm x 76cm.
plus the 1cm flap all sides. 78cm x x78cm.
cut 5cm x 5cm out of each corner.
now you need to put in your folds.
mark your 1 cm lines
then 4cm from that one.
fold your inside line down, use a straight edge, table edge...
then your next 1cm line the otherway.
tape your corners. hope this helps...............
make your exhaust hole.
tape and tack to wall.