I was Pres of the Metro Wrestling League, Olympic Wrestling commitee and coach of Many champs and worked with and coached against Mike Alvarado (Boxing Champ). My best advice to fathers with young athletes.
1.) Always admire your son or daughter for getting on the Mat, its very scary,! Their fucking FIGHTING even if he is 5.
2.) Dont let other parents get to you.
3. if your boy cut 10% for a wgt in , then you go to the gym with him and you cut 10% wgt, become champs together.
4, If your body and mind will allow you to, set an example by competing if you desire to get on Mat at that level, not for many parents but it helped my boys excel in that savage sport.
Judo - one of the Best Clubs in the USA is at Northglenn Rec Center, many champs (my boys rolled with Hoshimoto's) and they run a Very Good Judo club for kids and adults and families ..... ol guys can get on the Mat and roll, all levels and the club is well ran. the Ol instructor can throw you.
MMA - I like Zingano gym
http://sports.yahoo.com/blogs/mma-c...zingano-still-1-contender-185843918--mma.html if you go to this gym tell Garrett at the front counter the guy that used put him in the leg caddle sent ya,,, he'll laugh hard and yu;ll get some good stories..., He VERY good with kids and coaching kids in Wrestling , There some of the best coaches you'll find for kids learning wrestling.... Zach is good on his feet and Garrett will show other MMA for kids....