Dabbing is typically from the bong, using the quartz or Ti nail and appropriate angled female piece. Heat that sucker with blowtorch, till red hot, let loose color, then 'dab' (because once you inhale there is not going back, so people dab it little by little sometimes)...
Just don't grab the nail :)
As far as vape pens go, I never used many (used a few, but I dab, so it was like suckling on a baby bottle for me). Some may have preferences, but any should work. Nicotine has a boiling point of 476, cannabinoids in the range of 315(thc) - mid 400s (stable
terpenes, ect)... It won't floor you like the dab, but good for discreet use.
I'll just mix oil in with tobacco (or non-tobac cigs) when I go out in public...You can also take any wax, shatter, ect and dissolve it in a solvent (glycerin, ethanol) to turn it back into oil (a drop of solvent goes a long way) and coat any smokables.
Or just rip the filter off a cig, and put a little on the front.
Don't know where you'd look? Heard there was a shortage because of festivities/mishaps, ect...