fractal said:

I have you to thank for that in part, by calling me out on my whining about being "stuck" where I am last month. Right now the world is my oyster, and i understand I may be a little overzealous about the change but it is all for the best, the people I met have been aware of this and are helping me to take it one step at a a time. There is no church, no NA, none of that shit only the pure gathering of like minded spiritual people who believe in the one true God who nurtures the Earth and lets our plants grow as well as our souls.

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kolah said:

I don't think there is a right or wrong answer here..just differences...which arise from our genetic traits and from other nurturing aspects which were mostly laid down in the first 5 years of life. There is also some personality transitioning when going through the puberty stage as the hormones start kicking in.

It's good to see the "statics" standing up and speaking out. As I said I like my Gemini duality and bounce around from introvert and extrovert. As I have aged I seem to gravitate to being a more introverted person as I find more true peace and calmness in being alone. Also because many people do share my views or beliefs on life and living. Therefore I choose to avoid those folks...not because they are bad people in any way but only because we have nothing in common. OTOH I often get a bit itchy and need to socialize and spread my wings. For me the mix of the two keeps things interesting.

I think the best approach is to follow your heart and inner tuitions and whatever makes a person happy is the path they should follow. I think physical and emotional problems come into being when we try to be someone we are not (taking the wrong job, marrying the wrong person, pretending to be someone we are not, etc).

Static, dyno or a combo, we are all equal...just different..and IMO that's a good thing. Roll on.

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Kendo said:

That is awesome stutter much respect.
I think all humans have a natural fear of change, static or dynamic its all about how you deal with those fears. What I was more referencing was the aspect of change comfort zones and social comfort zones and wondering out loud if there is a link between the personality types and social/change fears.

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