Ok so I checked with my light meter and the HPS is more intense putting about 15% more lux at the same distance.
So from about 14" away the HPS around 100,000 lux, while the MH is closer to 85,000.
It seems that the sweet spot where flowers are developing perfectly, and there are no deficiencies showing, is around 65,000 lux. That is roughly 12" from the 600 MH, 18" from the 1000w MH and about 2' from the 1k HPS..
So perhaps it is a combination of intensity on different areas of the plant as well as spectrum (as in the HPS could be locking out Ca or could be causing severe uptake of Ca, thus antagonizing K?
I think I will try to keep all of the plant canopy at even intensity between 60,000 lux and 75,000 lux as that seems to really be a nice spot for plant growth.