could be several difrent things here,the number 1 thing sticks out at me,is the ideaing of flip to flower,flip feed and all in between,it you continue on this way,there will be a long battle ahead,im with every thing mentioned above,just look at it as a baby forced into a world teen ,teen forced in world of adult,adulted forced into a world of oh shit they fixing to burn me up,hahahah no really cycle them in to what make it work dont force nothing hell if there was the perfect fix growing wouldnt have any enjoyment ,prime exaAMPLE i have a 25 yr old son still living under my roof and swear he inst a day older than 16