Is this a male?
Welcome to the FARM and Thanks Sharing and reaching out...Gotta zoom in a bit tighter.
What do you mean by they cross and make an x. Please elaborate. Post a pic cause I don't think anyone knows what you even said.Not a male imo. Some females have boners and yours are throwing pistils. You're gtg. Generally speaking, on a female they'll cross and look like an "X"
Straight boners aren't definitive, but indicative of male. Keep an eye on her for developing balls. Never know, might have a hermie. I wouldn't stress about it unless you have that plant in with many others.
Btw...How often do you water your plants?