I consider wet just watered, as in saturated, 10 on a 1-10 moisture meter, also 8 and 9 are pretty wet. I consider moist like 3-7 on the meter... a couple days after watering, the soil is still moist. I consider dry a 0-2 on the moisture meter, they usually don't droop till around 1 or 0 on the meter, which for my current plant is about 5 to 6 days in almost 4 gallons of soil, obviously that varies with environment, plant size and stage. This also depends where you're stabbing the meter if you use one, they dry top down and outside to middle, so a tall pot may show dry on top, but still almost saturated below the water table towards the bottom... that's why it's important to judge by weight and not just feel the top of the soil. As long as they have established, healthy roots, they will get the lower water, and letting them dry back forces the roots to search for water and grow. I like to hear the satisfying sound of air bubbling out of my soil when I water... tells me she was indeed ready for a drink.