Oh congratulations on your two years very. :-) :-) apparently I miss read what you said you said dumb and bad, which I translated into dumb and stupid for some reason LOL I remember those first two to five years I think they were the years I kept telling myself, yes I did say For Better or Worse, and to death do us part! And I continued telling that to myself over and over and over and over again! Don't get me wrong I do love my wife very much don't you think I could at least be somewhat right every now and then? Or would that actually destroy the time continuum and all of existence would cease to exist all because I was selfish and felt that just Maybe I could at least be right about one thing, anything, anything at all LOL well you have a long Journey ahead of you, it's not easy and not many make it but there are those few that do . You are in the Twilight of your marriage that's a realm Where You Are quite forgiving of everything and just about anything but be oh, one of my biggest mistakes was always saying yes dear, Yes dear, when somewhere in the middle of that there most definitely should have been a few no dears but you know love is blind sometimes... So these days instead of telling myself over and over again, that I said those kind and loving words in front of God and everybody, I ask myself over and over again , why did you say those kind and loving words in front of anybody ... LOL seriously now man I really do wish you a happy and Long marriage but nobody Should even think of getting married at the age 19 I can tell you that only because you really just didn't have enough time to even get to know yourself much less get married
Thank you! Yes at 19 I was not ready to be married! Maybe 29 lol.....but we are both in our mid 30s now and glad we waited (of course).
Actually kind of funny....my dad had a previous marriage where he got married at like 20 and i never knew until i was in my mid twenties, when i got a phone call from my sister saying she found a picture of a wedding at my grandmother's house between my dad and not my mom.
Mind you i am in NYC on this morning, visiting my best friend from college. I have just consumed about a fifth of gin and a pack of cigs the previous night. My head feels like jack the ripper is trying to carve his way out of my skull.
First question: are there kids? No. Second question: does mom know, etc? Yes, it's fine there. Okay. Third question : was she pretty?
Sister did not find that very funny
I'm from his second marriage, which he entered into when he turned 30 lol. Quit smoking cigs after that trip too and with the exception of vacation, it has stuck. As has his second marriage, happily.
Anyway yes, thanks very much for the wisdom on being married that long! One day I hope to be in your shoes on that front, more or less (i will keep fighting the good fight on the right to be correct, of course
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