17 1/2" incision from stem to stern. Removed left Kidney cleaned thrombus from vena cava vein. = bypass and 9 1/2 hr in the operating room and 16 days in the hospital. Kidney cancer that was spreading to my heart. Grateful to be alive. Just too long of a recovery.
I'm not close with my 2 brothers we just don't have the same values in life. So my older bro calls me to day. We have talked more in the last 6 weeks than in the last 6 years. He starts telling me that now my wife needs to start working 40 hr a week instead of 32. The first time he brought this up I played nice and didn't respond. Needles to say after my response today He either won't call me again or he won't try to tell us how to live. I have reassured him and my parent that we have money put away. And I still know how to make more. I think I was politically correct with my response but got my point across that it is none of his fucking business and don't bring it up again.
And I wonder why I avoid family functions if at all possible. Who the fuck does he think he is. The more I think about it the more pissed I get.
You'll have to forgive me @stonestacker havent been around enough, whatcha recovering from??? Hope your healing well whatever it is. And @Yooper I see momma is doing ok as well . Nice!!!!
