As far as Metro goes, I'd avoid Broomfield, Thornton, Aurora, Centennial...
Don't get suckered into the "I'll live in the C.Springs and commute to Denver."
Or plan to commute from Highlands Ranch to Downtown.
If you can afford the extra few hundred a month on rent, take a look at Golden, Lakewood, even parts of Littleton.
Just a warning, though. If locate in the city, just for now, and your heart is in the Mountains, then your heart is going to be broken everyday you get in your car to drive eastwards. If you plan to move to the mountians (and don't have kids, major financial obligations {you sound kinda like a grower and your #1 concern is growspace and job}), it's going to be that much harder after you've sunk all sorts of money in rent, deposit, city stuff, ect...
Although rentals may be tight in the summer out here, it's a good time to get a job, if only for the summer. Plus camping is cheap, buying you time and information while you get a little R&R. Restaurants aren't very busy in the winter, unless you're in a ski resort. Plus, summer is when you meet people in the mountains, in the winter, everybody is either skiing or holed up in the warmth of the cabin. Plus, you have all summer to get shit (yer grow) ready for the Winter. And outdoor opportunities for your ladies are more limited in the Metro. And the Front Range is quickly becoming another suburb of greater Los Angeles.
Interested in what you consider the city to be making 'easier' on the move. Sure yes to some, but mountains are easier on others.
My advice is go where your heart is and fuck the rest. If you're heart lies in the mountains, it will be easier to just move there in the first place, than get 'locked down' in the city, with them titties (snow capped peaks) calling you every day you look West.
Let us know when you get in, I'm sure a few of us farmers could point you in some directions to check out.
Just saying it again, IF YOUR HEART LIES IN THE MOUNTAINS, and you choose the city b/c you think it will be easier? You will regret that decision. I know I did, and I should've known better, lived here most my life.
My neck of the woods if pretty nice. About 3-4 hrs to Denver, but only make that trip a few times a year. Otherwise it's like Colorado 10-20 years ago.