You may be making it harder on yourself with all that ventilation. Meaning if your little dehumidifier is dying out the air in your tent to say 45%rh but the air outside your tent is 60% then your ventilation system is sucking out the air in your tent and sucking in the 60% air outside your tent quicker than the little dehumidifier can dry it out. I just dealt with the same issue. I put a room dehumidifier outside my tent and got the air in the room dryer. I opened up 3x the amount of intake vents as what I've got going out and have been able to get down to 46-47% with lights on. 53-55 with the lights off, but I'm still working on that one. Good luck with your grow.