IMO, like anything, you need to start slow and work your way up if you want to get good at whatever it is you want to do well at.
As cool as all that gear is you really want to start with the basics and master those first. I'm not saying it can't be done out of the gate but as a first time grower you're going to have a lot going on at the same time and when a lot of stuff is going on and you have an issue it becomes much harder to figure which of all that stuff is causing the issue.
Honestly, for a new gardener, I would suggest you downsize into a 2 x 2 tent, pick up a
ViparSpectra XS1500 Pro for your lighting along with a 5 gal pot of your choice, soil media of your choice and whatever nutrient line you like. Getting into hydro your first time can be really frustrating. I would not recommend you do that. If you want to go organic then organic media for water only in veg and whatever organic nutrients you want to use once your plant goes into flower. Keep it simple the first time because even with as simple a setup as I've posted a lot of issues can crop up. Once you've learned how to take a plant from seed to harvest on your own, then you can go bigger and use the 2 x 2 to sprout seeds, grow clones, isolate infected plants, house mothers, whatever you want to use it for.
I get that this isn't sexy or cool but it will get you where you want to go quickly and cheaply.
My setup consists of a 5 x 5 as my main production tent and two 2 x 2's. One of the 2 x 2's houses 3 different mother cultivars for me to be able to take clones from that are guaranteed females. The other I use to sprout seeds, grow clones, etc. I've been growing for over 30 yrs and have worked in both legal and illegal facilities.
I know you said you like to go big, which is me to a T, but I(and my bank account) learned that doing it that way will usually end up with me having a lot of gear that I don't really know how to employ to its fullest because I'm not proficient enough to understand how it will work within the entire system. You mentioned you have friends that grow so you do have resources available to you when you have an issue but their grow style and yours may differ.
Don't be that guy that has the latest of everything but has no clue how to use it but likes the idea that he has the latest shit. Growing weed successfully doesn't take much. Gear just makes things easier and more automated.