chickenman
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Please stay strong... you can tackle the drink..
Herbs are so much better for you!
today is my 5th day with no booze.( Better than none)
All I really wanted to do yesterday after work was to stop and grab a 6 pack...
I was right there... Then I told myself "NO"
Got home... puffed tough.. Ahhh We are all good again.
Hey gurl, you need to put the plug in da jug for starters. Do you have any support system at all? A AA sponsor or anyone that is sober that you can lean on. I see @chickenman reached out to you and I am as well.I love you chickenman...thank you. I'm struggling tonight with what to do. I've kinda sobered up a tad. I've had pancreatitis twice since coming home I've had two extended stays one in a state hospital which was worse than war and one even longer in a beautiful but colorful institution in New England. I'm not sure where my road will lead.....I often feel excited about a stay in a hospital again just to let my hair down and let someone else worry. But it always leads to me leaving and fucking every person I meet as I ween off the psych mess, or worse isolation and self abuse wether drinking or other means. I'm not sure what to do. I get labeled a dyke where I live cause I'm a single female and farm, or I get labeled weird which I can kinda dig, but not many guys where I'm at want weird, they want loyal and baby bearing. I almost nightly drift off dreaming of living deep in the Rockies digging a hole and climbing in covering myself with leafs and waiting for the sun.....
Keep in mind brother there isnt anything you can do to fix your brother. He has to hit rock bottom and really want to get well. The old "sick and tired of being sick and tired". Before he gets ready to recover.I wish you the best of luck through your struggles. tomorrow is sunday. Alot of people are not into god. Whether you have faith or not, a lil church never hurt anyone. God really does amazing things.
I am caught up in the middle of my brother/ friend/ business partners addiction problem. I have been there for him since day 1. Sober, he is the best person you could ask for. And then there is the other side. It is horrible, and I don't know what to do. I feel lost. Tonight was a major tipping point. He went off the radar after he was supposed to deliver a few units. His wife called me out of her mind. I thought he got robbed. We are never supposed to go hustle by ourselves. Three hours later he calls, basically tells me to fuck off and can't even talk he was so wasted and high on blow. Three more hours later he got home. I went to make some sense of everything and find the coin or smoke, whatever he had left. That turned into a fight. Now he has a busted open face, I found some cash and then had to go on a journey to find his car and the rest of our stash. I found his keys with his druggie friends, then drove across town to get the car. A hour later I found the car with a p still inside. Found his wallet in his car with a small bag of blow. Now i have my wife and kids at home, mad at me, driving around at 11 at night with a few G's in my pocket, a p, and now a small bag of blow with someone else's blood on my clothes. I thought I was getting pulled over on the way back and my heart sunk. Cop wound up just passing me but it really made me think. This guy is going to sink my ship and I have never even done a drug in my life other then weed.
There is really no moral to my story and unfortunately there is no positive ending yet. His wife wants to leave him and if he wasn't so tied up with my operation I would do the same thing. Once again I don't know what to do.
To me, if I new my actions were destroying everyone and everything around me I would hopefully wake up. I know that it is easier said then done. I just want life to be normal. Our childhood was fucked due to my parents addiction problems, and now he is perpetuating the same lifestyle onto his child.
I wish everyone with a addiction problem could feel the pain that they put on there family. I am not trying to put a guilt trip on anyone, just venting my feelings from a very long night.
I believe that everyone is put on this earth for one reason or another. Those reasons are definitely not to self destruct yourself from a bottle or a bag of blow. If you figure out what you are supposed to be doing here then you immerse yourself in that cause and you will no longer have time to worry about your next drink.
I'm sure my rant has not helped solve anyone's problems. I just got home and this was the first post I seen after all this bullshit. I thought I could at least share my story of tonight so anyone else out there knows they are not the only ones caught in a tough place. I hope my bro can find his way reel quick. I hope anyone else out there can choose to end the pain and realize this world has alot of positive opportunity waiting for you. Just clear your head and look around. it is never to late. You can never give up. If you give up that makes your time here completely pointless. That is not why we are here. Good luck and please look forward. This world is supposed to be a amazing place and we are blessed with the opportunity to spend a small amount of time here.
LOL......... WTFWell you could of called me , we could of played strip poker, or something haha
Could of chased you around the house with my skinny ass lmao
banged my toe on the coffee table screamed bloody murder and be limping today , and crackin up laughing
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