side note:: got a e-mail form her the other day.. think she has finally hit rock bottom.... Sound like she's going back to WV to her Moms
i dont get into family affairs ,so this is a one shot opinoion my bro,dont hate me.
you love this girl you already know it,she has problems too,we all do ever damn one of us,we all depend on a crutch just humans ,it what we do,we argue and yell and scream, next day we tickle each other ass again,without it becomes boring,there was a atrraction that brought you both together and still is a bond or neither of you would even talk but you do,one or the other is waiting for the i told you so point and break weak, not gonna happen if it does because of the crutch,that said me and mama been together 40 yrs,in that 40 yrs i cant count arguments on one hand and most of them was over the kids,the sucess of marriage and cometment is this,equlity bro,she dont have a job of tending to you same for you,you do dishes laundry cooking all that shit,there are no your our my chores kinda thing,when i need clothes i do the whole house no question,same dishs and such,equlity we all strive thats all,for some reason thats women work or man work always come to mind,that mind is what takes equlity away,dog puke on the floor that not a his or her thing it who came across it first hahahahah ya sometime there be ninja looking around corners for each other when you know it gonna happen hahaha,getting busted doing it is whats fun.
no telling her this and her no telling you do that,no your turn for diaper duty none all that shit,think back when you both enjoyed what brought you together,it wasnt you doing all outside stuff her inside,because even though outside stuff is more laboring dont even hold a candle to inside stuff,especailly when kids are involved,so when we detail things in that manner,it becomes work,hell i work for the man,home i work for me and she does,im like a kid that never grew up when im home,aint shit for me to walk around a corner and slap her on the ass and run,cause she a coming hahah.same for her reach around no were and pluck a old man eye brow hair bothering her,hurts like hell little shit,but this is my meaning,that attachment that bond is why you know each other,i had the same problem as her,i hit rock bottom too,and that bottom will always be there,we both choice it to be,but lesson learned mama didny give up on me,just let me rant and rave let me slam that head again a rock several times,but was there for suport,bro your girl needs your suport hell yall argue and shit,so what you do the same for family members even work friends,what the difrence,it all talk,you argue over money over wants and needs so what,that is life my friend because even them hams born with a slver spoon in mouth arent happy,this much i know and stake my life on is this,without each other is a scarry son bitch,i dont give shit if im hated that is something,were some dont have haters,gaters even folk that wont even look there way,lonesome is rock bottom brother,unfortunatly we dont find that until it really hits right between the eye.
hell i could ramble on for hours,what im saying dont just let her go she needs you and same for you,commitment isnt great freaking sex or what ever your pleasure,commitment is waking up to bad breath and farting getting out of bed ,but the eyes opening gazing at each other,why not bring her up them woods and both yall be free,might just work out for your ass and all else build her a room and you have your own,dont have to be sex,her cooking for you or her share a life and enjoy picking at each other if nothing else,take away all them burdens ,bet your shock and go right back to that gleem that brought you together in first place,anyway hard justice bro,i just have to say and only do once,ive lost more friends over there realationships,so if i went past my boundry sorry bro but when you sit back and think you will agree it nothing but heart love bro