Lesson #3
Don't be that Creepy Stalker Dude.
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So after a couple of dates with Sarah soul mate you have been unable to get her to commit to a long term relationship. No matter how you many times you tell her you love her she always looks at you like you just ate a booger.
Intimate Instagram selfies, lovelorn prose twitter tweets, Innumerable heartfelt Facebook likes . When does Cyrano De Bergerac become Creepy stalker Dude? As soon as she rebuffs you in that, GET THE FUCK WAY FROM ME CREEP manner. When the answer is
NO!, recognize and
LET IT GO!!!!!
Don’t be that creepy stalker dude, NOBODY likes a creepy stalker dude, except their Mom of course.
Here is one of the most difficult aspects of meeting women,
Is she receptive?!? At first the signs are elusive but as you put yourself out there more you will be able to tell. It’s hard for me to nail down exactly how you will know because it really comes down to how open you are to the clues.
Ya gotta open those instincts fellas, if you allow your natural instincts to take charge your senses will do the work. Pheromones, body language, tone of voice, eye contact. All these will tell you very quickly If yes, no, maybe.
You must let the Love Chi flow my brothers.
T here are several clues that are apparent.
#1 uses her left hand to brush hair aside.
#2 Keeps your gaze.
#3 engages you in further conversation.
#4 catch her looking at you as you walk away. (Take 4-5 steps and turn quickly to say something)
If it’s a no… Don’t take it personally. Learning how to take rejection in stride is by far the most important aspect to confidence.