That helps, need to know more a cue than to lift the pots. the plant needs to show something noticable, i understand thats not how its always gunna be and i cant make it like that, but the pot lifting isnt helping tbh. they feel light as hell, i water they get heavy, theyre overwatered. i use a moisture meter, it says drier than a desert, i water, its overwatered. it doesnt matter how much i give it.
so next time im going to start looking for bottom wilting. and see if that will be a good cue when to water. i really need to a good cue.